Excessive use of Pornography, Compulsive Sexuality (Sexual "Addiction"), Feeling Powerless over Sexual Urges, Patterned Infidelity, Sexual Urges or Actions that are Embarrassing or Confusing, Sexual Functioning Problems.
When Sex is Causing Trouble
Many people struggle with sexual problems such as those listed above. Often, people fear that no one will understand (sometimes they don't even understand!). They fear they will be rejected if they tell anyone, particularly their partner. If they have engaged in illegal behavior, they know there may be consequences.They may be caught in addictive behavior and may not be thinking clearly about their actions. Sexual urges are very powerful and the pleasure they bring is as intense as the desire to stop - often stronger. There are very effective treatments for sexual problems. I have worked for many years helping individuals overcome the problems listed above.
Treatment for Sexual Problems
Compulsive Sexual Behavior- Treatment for this behavior pattern has some similarities with addiction treatment.
Risky Sexual Behaviors- This treatment involves identifying the goals being met with these behavior and developing alternatives
Feeling powerless over sex - Sometimes people feel about sex like some people feel about smoking or eating - the urges seem uncontrollable, even when they try to use control.
Sexual Functioning- Often there is a psychological component to erectile dysfunction or difficulty achieving orgasm.
